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Old 04-28-2012, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Interested32 View Post
Basically the transition signals such as Interested to Friendship, Friendship to Relationship, Relationship to Long Term
Well, instead of giving signals that need to be interpreted, you can actually communicate directly and clearly what you want.

"I like hanging out with you!"
"I think we can be friends."
"You're fun to be with."
"I like you."
"I'd like to get together with you sometime and do ___."
"You're my best friend."

"I want to get to know you better."
"Your friendship means a lot to me."
"I'm attracted to you."
"I'd like to see if we can have more than a friendship."
"I think we really work well together."

"I'm interested in seeing you long-term."
"You mean a lot to me."
"I feel like I can commit to this."
"I love you."
The world opens up... when you do.

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