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Old 04-28-2012, 12:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Curmudgeon View Post
(cause after all, I am the one that is married, not him)
Is that something he said? If so it might set off a few small alarm bells for me as it lets him compare your "cheating* on your husband" (big bad thing) with his cheating on his GF/FB/FWB (little bad thing) and make it small and forgiveable by comparison. I encountered the thought process many times back in my long-ago clubbing days when my "No thanks, I have a boyfriend" would be met with a "That's ok, I have a girlfriend too... so how about it?" as if two wrongs would actually make a right.

*"Cheating" used only to show the possible thought process, not to in any way imply that's what's going on.
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