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Old 11-28-2009, 02:10 AM
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i wouldn't say im running around doing whatever i want,
if i was doing that id be simply seeing M right now because thats what i want and not really caring how montianboy feels,
as it stands we are taking things very slow, i have only made contact with M over the phone and its been 6 months of just talking to them both and trying to figure out a way through this

i am all for compromise
but i don't feel like my simply cutting M out my life would be a compromise that would be only ME compromising,

perhaps i am a selfish horrible person, but i would rather not give up someone i love to make someone else happy when it would make me misrable long term and prob destroy the other relationship anyway

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