Thanks for reading the thread. As I stated in my initial posts, I do hope for a partnership that involves building a home and possibly a family together. At the same time I recognize that there are all sorts of possibilities for lifelong partnerships that don't necessarily have to be living together or having a family together. So I want to be clear that finding life long parters is not the issue. It's finding partners that are available to build a home and family with that is generally harder to find in poly communities.
Thanks for the website, but honestly I don't consider it terribly relevant. At this point in my life, being single is the way it has to be for various reasons and I'm fine with that and I don't measure my worth or value based on whether I have a relationship or not. I wouldn't put myself into the category of a person who can't cope with it. However, it still doesn't change what my ultimate wants are.