So during the dating process and the lead up to marriage was the long term living arrangement discussed? Was it missed ...or did it change after you got the job offer after the wedding.
I'm having a hard time understanding "love is communication" and the holes in communication surrounding careers, living arrangements, etc. It sounds like you put you career and your thoughts and choices above your marriage ...I'm going ...sorry that you don't like it and feel free to walk out now....but I'm going ...deal....see you in 3 months.
What I meant by the phrase "lack of physical contact" was all encompassing. A way way wider view than just sex or daily sex. A hug and kiss hello and good bye, meals together, doing things together ..doing nothing together ...cuddled up sleeping together....and yes some romantic sexual connection.
Was an end date to the LDR/JOB ever discussed?