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Old 04-26-2012, 09:10 AM
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I must say, after reading through those threads I feel very intimidated to be here. It doesn't seem like a newbie friendly place. I think I may just have to stick to lurking and learn what I can that way.
We're very newbie-friendly. I think some of us even have cookies to share. Sorry if those links scared you!

It was just a suggestion to give you an idea of the issues, so that you can figure out a direction for yourselves. Poly is much harder than people think, and it's best to move ahead with eyes open to see the pitfalls in the beginning rather than after people get hurt.

But if you want to read about poly successes, we do share our happy moments in this thread: Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

Also check out the Life Stories and Blogs section for personal perspectives. The blogs are protected here, no debates allowed, so they are more like journals.
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