We never had any counceling. It's just not for us, we are open and honest with each other. I understand her needs and I support her. But how do I get past my emotions? It is literally head vs heart. My heart loves and accepts but my head wont let me find zen. It's torment at times and other times its fine. How do I make the switch? The easy solution is to stop caring. But I'm not ok with that. I never NEVER will be the back seat husband.
Thanks for the advice!