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Old 04-24-2012, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Verabean View Post
I have some important loving relationships without sex as well, but they are not considered as threats to my boyfriend. Only sex is a threat. Why is sex a threat any more than an important loving relationship is? What is it about sex and lust specifically, that makes us feel jealous?
But there are some people who feel the opposite. They and their partners can have all the sex they want with whomever they want, but they reserve love for only each other, and get really bent out of shape when feelings develop.
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