The daddy is so very much what matters.
I still call mine daddy, and I'm 51 years old. I love teasing him about how old I am on my birthday.
And more than 50% of CurrentBoyfriend's cousins/siblings are adopted (as is he).
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)