How true about finding your parents toys, I was slightly shocked at 16yoa myself.
Mu daughter at 16yoa has a fear of the penis, which is good from my father point of view
she has even wrote papers at her high school about poly and it's pro's and con's. She has become a very mature smart young lady.
Now the son is almost 12yoa, he thinks all families should have two moms.
As I have said open communication in every relationship whether its with your kids, family or someone else. Just have to use alnauge that is proper for age and status within family.
I love my family and even the kids support our choice for two live in moms. Even the Moms love it