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Old 04-22-2012, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn View Post
I came by to get some of my stuff tonight and find Vanilla completely incoherent after popping too many painkillers. Yay. So I'm not moving out it seems.
You can be there for her AND be there for yourself. Don't let her manipulate you with her self-destructive drama. Get her the help she needs by calling an ambulance or taking her to an emergency room, whatever, AND then move out. You aren't doing her any favors by staying. Save yourself, too.
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