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Old 04-22-2012, 09:48 PM
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Going out to find other partners does not fix problems within your relationship. Fix that first and get it healthy. You two are really focused on sex. When you are on stable ground, maybe look into swinging. But only if your relationship is in a good, loving, strong, emotionally and sexually healthy place can having additional partners work well.
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