Thanks for that AC.
I am slowly introducing polyamory to M, and have been gleaning stories for her to read. Our lives are incredibly busy right now so I am just letting it be as is, with nothing but encouragement. Definately want M to be able to read of and meet other polyamorous folks so she doesn't feel so alienated. As workoad eases off in 6 weeks or so, we'll have opportunity to explore and introduce her to this community then. Honestly her schedule is insane, mines not that much better.
I know who the other people are in her life, I just get full of fear sometimes and then everyone is a potential threat as I feel so worthless.
Really appreciate the kind words. Her love has noticeably deepened since our poly talk, and I am very grateful for this also.