Hi Dinged, yes I saw the Birth Certificate. The space for father's name is left blank. However the baby has my surname, as she wanted it to be the same as all the other children's.
I have no idea why she does not want a divorce, or anything about the other guy's relationship with the baby, as we don't discuss anything important at the moment.
It is sort of like we have both pulled back to lick our wounds and recover.
"The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times but to get up eight times"