Just to clarify. I dont have any prospects for a GF let alone another sub. In going through a book about defining boundries one of the questions that was asked is " whats your perfect idea of relationships for you?"
I answered " to have a wife and a GF both sub to my dom".I would never claim another sub without acceptance of it wholly from LR. She is my wife first and formost.
D/s is not somthing I require its a desire, an intrest. A loving relationship with LR is a requirement.