Hi, I too am in a very similar situation. You might be interested in checking out shybi.com I've been overe there and there are alot of women there in similar situation. I am also bi-curious and would love to introduce a lady into our situation. One of my guys is bi and he is in a relationship with a guy as well. I am very happy that he has found a guy that he is not only very happy with, but seems to work quite well with our relaitonship. I wish I could be so lucky finding a girl
I wish you luck.