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Old 04-18-2012, 11:37 PM
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
... then what would be a good enough reason to date this man other than he really loves me and tells me that quite often?
Oh, let's see... perhaps because the experience could enrich your life even further? Maybe because one can never have too much love and caring in one's life? Because it might be fun? Because not entering into it will always make you wonder if that was the right choice? Because you will learn more about another human being (always interesting!) and yourself? Because the opportunity is presenting itself and life is too short to pass up good opportunities?

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