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Old 11-26-2009, 05:00 PM
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Gosh i have a lot of empathy for you, Alexandra. Your reconnection w L is intense, you feel infatuated, you have what is called NRE, new relationship energy. I have had so many "crushes" while I was in my long term mono marriage... I know how overwhelming they are, like an obsession.

Yes, I wonder as others do, how you reconnected w L.

My gf and I just went to a conference last weekend where poly/mono relationships were addressed. Where one partner wants other partners, and yet his/her primary doesnt. That isnt our situation, but the material in that session should help you. Here's a link to that faciliator's workshop material on the subject.

all downloadable docs here:

http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/do...documents.html

guide to opening a prev mono relationship:

http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/im...lationship.pdf

the pleasure and pain of poly/mono relationships
http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/im...ationships.pdf
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