Yes, stepping completely away from the situation is exactly what I have done. I will not see or speak with him. Just carrying on with my life as I had before meeting him. I'm bummed out and feel it is such a shame for such a man to be deceptive. Such a damn shame.
I'm watching relationships around me crumble as I speak. Aunt was cheated on by her long term boyfriend (neither are poly), gay roommate breaking up with his man, friends breaking up. ALL due to lack of communication and trust. Such a shame. Imagine how many great lovers there would be if there was no deception!
I'm literally in tears today thinking of what a shame it is that people are deceptive and just cannot be honest.