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Old 04-18-2012, 04:00 PM
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Just posted about this on another thread, but I will give a summary here:
Originally Posted by Mudita View Post
What constitutes cheating to the folks on this forum?
Breaking the rules of the relationship that we have agreed to.

Originally Posted by Mudita View Post
Or more to the point are there some kinds of cheating that are ok?
No, if we agreed that there should be things restricted by rules, then breaking of any of them is a major issue in our relationship.

Originally Posted by Mudita View Post
Is a "superficial sexual encounter" with a person who is involved in a relationship with a partner who has not/would not consent tolerable to you?
No. Absolutely not. But that's just me, and I won't pretend that this is some universal standard.
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