I should preface this by saying that I don't actually "date" but when it would have come up: Either I know them well enough to already know the answer or it's such a superficial sexual encounter that I didn't care, so I really have never had the opportunity to ask.
Anyone who has ever actually talked to me for 5 minutes knows that I have a husband since I barely have a life story that doesn't involve him in some way (not to mention that I wear a ring)...although they might not realize that I have a boyfriend too (depending on the context).
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (22+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (3+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi married female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.
My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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