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Old 04-17-2012, 03:01 AM
opalescent opalescent is offline
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Bunny,

If someone is finished with a relationship, then it is not a kindness to stay in that relationship. In fact it can be quite cruel. In that case, it is the ethical thing, the honorable thing, to end the relationship, to divorce. Not good but necessary so that everyone can move on, hopefully to something that suits all involved better.

If possible, it is good to try and fix a relationship. But sometimes they cannot be fixed - and sometimes should not be fixed. I'm not saying this about the OP in particular - just my general observation. There are worse things than divorce - and on the face of it, the OP is enduring one of those worse situations.

That is what I mean by divorce sometimes being the honorable thing to do.

Last edited by opalescent; 04-17-2012 at 03:02 AM. Reason: spelling
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