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Old 04-17-2012, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
Library, wallks, car ride, local events for free, coffee shops... All free or freeish dates. I am not sure why you are hanging out at home so much. *confused.
Yes, I was going to suggest a stroll in the park, that could be so romantic. Is this an issue of staying closeted as poly? Or of not feeling like you can ask his wife or someone else to watch the kids?

I wouldn't think that staying at home with his wife and kids walking around as much of a date. How do you ever have private time to talk and get to know each other? Going into the other room, eh... sounds like you're in Junior High going to makeout while doing homework. Is his wife wanting to keep an eye on you two or something?

I am confused, too. It is so puzzling!
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