Originally Posted by kdt26417
I don't mean to disrespect your fiancÚ, but I'm a little discouraged that he seems to be a little insensitive towards your feelings, especially if his main concern is whether your feelings take away from his fun. This is supposed to be a two-way relationship; he's supposed to care for you (and about your happiness) as much as you do him (and his).
Good advice. It sounds to me like your fiance wants to do as he pleases, knowing you'll be sitting home waiting with a smile on your face so as not to spoil his fun.
Try to imagine living like this for the next 30 or 40 or 50 years, waiting at home, alone, for someone who doesn't come home and doesn't call, and doesn't want you seeing anyone else even though he is.