Any man that gives me a load of crap about "timing" or that he doesn't want to tell her yet is cheating I think. If he has a DADT then he would of told you by now. Even if he does I would still want to hear it from her. The thing with DADT's is that eventually the partner finds out. When is the time that they DO care about what goes on for their partner. Better to make them aware before sex and connection than after sex and connection in my opinion and experience.
Ya, fess up time I think. He could be really scared she will blow up at him, but that is for him to deal with and figure out if its worth staying in. If you are uncomfortable and he cares about you, then its time to say something.
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