Originally Posted by nycindie
Jealousy isn't always a given. Many people don't experience much of that. It usually depends on how secure/insecure someone is.
Loving more than one person is the easiest thing in the world. Coming up against our programming is harder.
It's as if someone is reading my mind.
Loving more than one person is not difficult. Falling IN love with more than one person at the same time, might be more of a challenge, to be fair. But actually ongoing love with more than one person---been there, done that, and hope to do it more!
And yes to the jealousy isn't a given. Envy if you don't get your fair share is common in poly for sure....it's a scheduling and resource allocation challenge. But I can't recall any jealousy issues. I'm
the one actually trying to get my current bf to go out and meet more guys. Go figure. LOL