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Old 04-14-2012, 05:22 AM
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I never advised that you insist on anything, I hope you know.

I just thought you had an opportunity for a conversation, which might allow her to get a bigger picture of who you are and what exactly you had in mind. And give her something to think about. But NOT by being insistent in any way!

The good thing is you can still develop the friendship. And friendship is no small thing, right?
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