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Old 04-13-2012, 02:17 PM
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Welcome!

Sounds like you're having quite a time.

I feel compelled to point that it really isn't exclusively your job to:

"feel this sort of pressure to deal with both my partners' needs and worries over my own because they're the ones in precarious situations--I'm the one getting everything I could possibly want, right? Itís my job to moderate things."

I get you're feeling it; I invite you to stop.

If they're actually PARTNERS, I'm guessing they want to support you too. Let them. Share with them. Everything. Not just the good feelings.
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Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)
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