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Old 04-13-2012, 02:17 PM
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Sounds like you're having quite a time.

I feel compelled to point that it really isn't exclusively your job to:

"feel this sort of pressure to deal with both my partners' needs and worries over my own because they're the ones in precarious situations--I'm the one getting everything I could possibly want, right? Itís my job to moderate things."

I get you're feeling it; I invite you to stop.

If they're actually PARTNERS, I'm guessing they want to support you too. Let them. Share with them. Everything. Not just the good feelings.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein

Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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