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Old 04-12-2012, 10:24 PM
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"The only problem I see is that the Bf is still in a lose lose position"

Um, or, third option -- the work that he and the OP do together, their experimentation, the trust and honesty, etc, actually helps him to become a more fulfilled and secure and less jealous person, which serves him well as a human being while also negating the problem posed by his reaction to the other guy?

I'm not saying that scenario is a guarantee by any means, but there ARE more than two possible outcomes here! Seriously. Why assume it has to be lose-lose??
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