Originally Posted by nycindie
Do something else, go out for the evening, take a walk, play cards, watch a movie, whatever.
If it's a bone fide relationship you want and not just casual swinging, I totally agree with that. My boyfriend and I made a point to develop over a period of months the non sexual parts of our relationship even though we started with the sex, lol. And now, like nycindie, sometimes we have sex and sometimes we don't...and it doesn't matter. We still enjoy each other's company.