This is just a thread since it's in the poly relationships corner. Blogs would be in http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=5
the life stories and blog section.
I understand if you ask a mod to move this they can do that, or you might want to start a fresh thread one there. That area is more for telling personal stories and getting some light advice and encouragement, (as in you won't get as much critical advice there, but posting in this section it's perceived you want really honest feedback)