Originally Posted by Alleycat
Never lose heart.
Plenty of ladies out there prefer the straight up honest yes/no situation, but I find its dependant on age group;
24> : flaky, confused, dramatic, and frankly unsure of what is it is that they are actually looking for.
25< : Significantly less bullshit (normally), clear boundaries and expectations, both of which are clearly defined as "hardline" or "open to negotiation".
I have no idea why that particular chronological spot seems to make the difference, but in my experience its a consistently observable phenomenon.
Thanks for the word of encouragement. But, I would place that chronology way
later than you.
I seem to think that it isn`t until after a woman has raised her children, and is into menopause, than she starts being able to make independent, clear, communicable, decisions.
What I see as an observable phenomenon is:
25 and under --- attention-whore; that includes, nagging, flaking, cockteasing, shit tests, etc.
25-28 --- gold-digging;
28-40 --- biological-clock bridezilla;
If it weren`t for cougars, I don`t think college age boys would survive.