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Old 04-11-2012, 08:28 AM
feelyunicorn feelyunicorn is offline
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Originally Posted by Alleycat View Post
Never lose heart.

Plenty of ladies out there prefer the straight up honest yes/no situation, but I find its dependant on age group;

24> : flaky, confused, dramatic, and frankly unsure of what is it is that they are actually looking for.

25< : Significantly less bullshit (normally), clear boundaries and expectations, both of which are clearly defined as "hardline" or "open to negotiation".

I have no idea why that particular chronological spot seems to make the difference, but in my experience its a consistently observable phenomenon.
Thanks for the word of encouragement. But, I would place that chronology way later than you.

I seem to think that it isn`t until after a woman has raised her children, and is into menopause, than she starts being able to make independent, clear, communicable, decisions.

What I see as an observable phenomenon is:

25 and under --- attention-whore; that includes, nagging, flaking, cockteasing, shit tests, etc.

25-28 --- gold-digging;

28-40 --- biological-clock bridezilla;

If it weren`t for cougars, I don`t think college age boys would survive.
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