One of my best friends believes I am a sinner and doing wrong by God by allowing this lifestyle and called my wife a slut. It can be challenging for sure. Don't let them dictate your life. Who cares how serious you're taking the relationship. It's your relationship. Tell them to mind their own.
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is the regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney Smith
Kyle: 27 year old male
Katie (rymmare): 25 year old female
Kids: girl: 5 years old, boy: 3 years old