Hate to break if to you two, your both.
To some your only a novelty. And those are the fuck-n-flingers, you'll know them easily enough 'cause after they've had a ride they dissapear.
To some your exotic; they'll ask questions, they mght not get into the situation but they will giggle while they try an measure how things operate.
It's not a question of how you want to be Precived, it's a matter of how the individual choose to presieve you both.