I have no real excuse for not using condoms. I'd be so mad if Hubby had done it to me. This is one of the problems that we worked through. BF and I did talk about it a few times. He said he would be there and he would take that over not bring in my life at all. I knew about hubby vasectomy he got it while we were together. I am ok with it we talked about it along time before he got it. I was ok with not having more kids. Am I ok with this little one yes. Hubby is getting excited about being a dad again.
Yes they both agreed to share being a dad to the baby. I think both of them will be ok with each other playing dad since I am very dominate so they take their cues from me anyways. I know that kinda sounds bad but they both cater to me so this is just another part of our family.
His other kid is to young to know what is going on. There is baby mama drama over there so I stay out of it. That area I take my cues from him since that is all his drama.