You rank their needs higher than your own. Why? Is this creating resentment? Is this the philosophy they take? When they do something that hurts you what do you think the motivation behind that is? Ignorance, laziness, spitefulness? Is it a personal problem or a lack of love, caring, or is it just hatefulness?
Bunny: Mid-20's, bi-sexual, female, 2 partners
Badger: Mid-20's, straight, male, 1 partner
Turtle: Early 30's, straight, male, 1 partner
Bunny & Badger: living together for 4 years
Bunny & Turtle: regular dating a few months
Badger & Turtle: no contact