Hello...I'm RockBird's ex-girlfriend/lover. I had posted before in this thread
, at the beginning of our ordeal. I'm really happy with what's happened because it was extremely tough for both of us to make the transition from long-term relationship to friends. Right now I guess we're between friends and a relationship, and that's just fine with me, because even if we might not be together for the rest of our lives, that doesn't mean that we can't love each other right now. And if someday in the future he finds someone who is better suited for his lifestyle than I was, then making the transition from lover-friends to just-friends will be much easier.
After all the pain we've been through, I'm glad that we've come to a happy medium. He's really worked hard on this, more than most people would have. He definitely deserves a gold star for that.