Had you and she agreed at this point that it was ok for her to have sex (oral, in this case) with him? Sorry, a little confused on that point in the story. The last I recall about agreements was that sexting was ok and you guys were going to work out the rest.
The major players. Me, under-30 bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 3+ years. Clay, new boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/"it's complicated."
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. June and Royce, Izzy's partners.