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Old 04-06-2012, 01:25 AM
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Originally Posted by polypenguin View Post
i'm not a sereal killer. :'(

I didn't say you're a serial killer. I just meant that you can wind up in harm's way if you only look for the good in people and put blinders on to their bullshit, meanness, and the damage they cause. Case in point: that couple --> not your friends.

I am also curious why "always looking for the good in people" means it was perfectly fine to discount and dismiss your girlfriend's concerns, whine and mope when you couldn't have your way, and pressure her to be around unsafe people she had a very bad feeling about. What was your reasoning there?
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