I don't know if you are, but try not to take their shift in energy personally. It happens. Them wanting you there sounds like they are connected to you but differently. You don't have to be there if its starting to make you feel jealous and like a third wheel. That much info about their connection is not necessary or something you shoulkd have to have. At some point relationships need privacy in terms of intimacy I think.
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