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Old 04-05-2012, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted by polypenguin View Post
...I don't have a lot of friends and I don't want to loose any of the ones I do have. I guess that's the reason I always only look for the good in people. I want to find something I like, not something I don't.
Yeah, well, even some serial killers have good qualities.

I hope you can see that, from how that couple behaved, they are NOT your friends. Friends are much more respectful than they were. Those people are selfish and only after what they want, without regard for you and your girlfriend. If it's friends you want, look for them while participating in activities you enjoy, outside of sex. Listen to Genebean, work on your relationship with her, BEFORE getting into sexual situations with other people.

Have you thoroughly read all the posts in this thread? There is good advice and feedback for you here.
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