Yeah RedPepper, you very well may be right. Thank you for the thought stimulator here.
They both say that they want me there, and I definitely need to take their words into serious account. However, also their energy towards each other is more energized than it is towards me. So perhaps simply we are all heading in the direction of them separating from me, but they aren't quite there yet...i.e. if they were totally ready then they would tell me.
I'll start thinking and feeling out the idea of them separating from me now--before it comes up.
I have another thought, but I'll start a new thread for it, as it is worthy.