It sounds like he's made his decision, and you have a choice. You can either accept the relationship as it is or give it up (as a "romantic" one). It really sucks when you see how the pieces could fall together, but don't. It sounds like you have put an awful lot of effort in, but that effort's been mostly one-way.
To me, the question you need to ask yourself is "does the relationship bring me enough pleasure to be worthwhile as is?"
Last edited by Jade; 04-05-2012 at 03:39 AM.