OK so we've veered off the OP to the real issue? Youre tired of Domming and want to sub for a while?
Do you really, or do you just need to delegate more housework to your subs? Do they really have it in them to be the Doms after being subs for so long? how would that all play out, do you think?
The other q related to the OP seems to be, how would you feel if one of your partners collared a slave? You dont mind if they "play" BDSM games w another lover, but would feel threatened if they wanted a more formal relationship w a sub?
Just how capable do they seem of switching?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)