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Old 04-04-2012, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Scott View Post
I haven't persuaded anyone who's monogamous to become poly, but I still like getting them to think a bit atleast (and I have managed that).
I agree - I'm not in this world to try to convince someone to change their feelings about something they want to do in their own lives because I respect their choices. However, this is about finding acceptance of our way of thinking, while allowing folks to be monogamous if they desire, is it not?

Originally Posted by Scott View Post
Seriously, what is so "different" about romantic love vs. the more platonic kind, -especially- if sexuality isn't involved?
A question I have asked quite a few folks, and the usual answer is "I don't know, it just IS". Trying to apply logic to discussions about matters of the heart is often futile, in my experience.

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