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Old 04-03-2012, 04:03 PM
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Agreed. Communicate. Ask for it. Give it a name.

Then, give in kind. Ensure your passion, engagement and understanding of her desires/needs matches that which you seek.

On the other hand, I'd probably be as jealous watching it. Probably why I don't/won't watch a partner with someone else. Holds no erotic value for me.
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