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Old 04-03-2012, 01:54 PM
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I would definitely not recommend doing this in a letter or even on Skype.

Something this personal should be done face-to-face, so that you can gauge reactions, and maybe stop early if you realise that things aren't going well - cut your losses, as it were.

Also, don't make it one-sided. Ask her how she feels about the two of you, and what she could imagine happening.

And yes, do it sober, in a safe, neutral space for you all.
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