So would you like to tell us more about you and your wife's interest in polyamory? There are many different types out there - which style would you say is yours?
And meeting local folks would be easier if we knew roughly where you lived - I don't see it on your profile (unless I missed it somewhere....)
Please check out The Birdcage - an open, friendly Polyamory forum for all parts of New York State
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