Thread: First Poly date
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Old 04-01-2012, 06:00 PM
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Oops, missed that. I'm new to poly so I could be wrong about this, but it seems unnecessary for an unattached person to wave a neon sign announcing "I'm poly" or making this a big topic on first dates. Don't most people (poly or not) date multiple partners until serious intentions arise? Couldn't the poly topic wait until the 2nd or 3rd date? Or beyond? Maybe I'm missing the point, but it seems like you're suggesting that being "poly" is the most important or most interesting thing about yourself--I doubt that's the case.
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