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Old 04-01-2012, 05:19 PM
Cleo Cleo is offline
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Europe
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I met both my lovers online, and I am a great advocate of online dating

about the competition thing: that's a tough one. I was talking about this with my husband just today. How would I feel if he had his girlfriend and i had nobody? There was a time like that and it made me anxious, jealous, jumpy, restless, scared, and a lot of other unpleasant things. We both recognize that a situation like that could occur again for either of us - symmetry is very hard to achieve.

I guess the challenge is being happy for your spouse and still actively pursuing your own interests without feeling bitter, hurried, jealous or lonely.

Quite the challenge huh?
early forties, straight.
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